How Much Should You Spend on a Bridal Shower Gift?
The etiquette guide nobody wants to ask about.
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General Guidelines
Most bridal shower guests spend $30-$75 on a gift. Close friends and family typically spend $75-$150.
By Relationship
- Immediate family: $100-$200 — consider a luxury gift they will treasure
- Close friend/sibling: $50-$100 — a thoughtful personalized gift works well
- Coworker/acquaintance: $25-$50 — plenty of beautiful gifts under $50
- Plus-one attending with partner: $30-$50 from the couple combined
Tips for Any Budget
- Personalized gifts feel more expensive than they cost
- Group gifts are fine — coordinate with other guests for a big-ticket item
- A heartfelt card with a smaller gift is better than stretching your budget
What NOT to Do
- Don't bring a gift that requires the bride to return/exchange it
- Don't arrive empty-handed — even a small token is expected
- Don't wrap cash as a standalone shower gift
Need gift ideas? Browse our curated gift guides for every budget.